Last night, while Sophia and I were on the phone, I was discussing why I was recently in such a distraught mood. She did bring up something that I remembered clearly: "I remember reading in your livejournal about how great a boyfriend he was! How he took you on trips and how he treated you and stuff. How did he change into such a person?"
I thought about it, and today I have come to the realization as to why we must move on, even if we don't feel like we're ready to.
For those in my situation, the one you are in love with is no longer here. The person who you thought was perfect does not exist anymore. He/she has left the person you thought you were in love with. There's no reason to stay and wait for this person to change back to what they used to be.
They will remember all the memories, they will remember the feelings, but the one you love and the person you see now are two different people.
Look for the person you love in someone else.
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